Looking for Clues

Yesterday's post was about how to be a sexual person when spontaneous sexual thoughts or feelings are few and far between. Here's another inroad: think about the times when you DO feel sexy or just in touch with yourself as a sexual being. What's different about those times? Are you rested and relaxed? Have you had a glass of wine? Have you found a way to put your to-do list on hold? Are you wearing something you feel good in? Have you just read an erotic love scene from a novel?

Those questions just scratch the surface. Probe for hints and clues to the things that spark your sexual imagination and provide a way to tap into your sexual energy. There may be more avenues into your sexuality than you think.