Back from AASECT

I just got in from Phoenix this evening. The conference of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists was informative and entertaining, and my presentation on Taking Sexy Back was extremely well-received. Apparently I’m not the only therapist who’s noticed a sexual malaise affecting a significant segment of the population, and the audience was eager for tips to take back to their clients.

It was refreshing to be in an environment in which sex was being discussed openly and frequently – not only in the workshops, but in the pool, by the bar, in the elevators, and in the lobby. The attendees took the subject of sex seriously, but were not lacking a sense of humor and playfulness.

Hanging out in the exhibit hall, I was able to check out some of the latest innovations in sex toys and sexual aids. I got a hands-on look at the new vibrator that hooks up to your ipod and vibrates to the rhythm of whatever tune happens to be playing. I tried out the candle that, when lit, produces warmed lotion for pouring on your lover’s body. It doesn’t burn the skin and provides a relaxing ambience for lovemaking.

I’ll share some more substantial conference learning in upcoming posts. Right now I’m just basking in the afterglow…