Things You Should Know About Sex Cont.'

For the next 3 days, I'm going to finish up the 40 things you should know about sex by age 40 as listed in an article in Prevention:

26. A little cleavage goes a long way. Do you really think you look hot with your shirt buttoned up to your chin? Or a T-shirt shrouding your tankini? Get over yourself already. You may have stretch marks and spider veins everywhere else, but with the right support, your boobs can still hold their own. So let 'em show, and you'll feel sexier than you have in a long time.

27. Making the first move...is as much a turn-on for you as it is for your partner.

28. It's not you...it's him. Contrary to popular belief, men aren't always ready and raring to go -- especially middle-aged men. Many go through their own form of menopause as their testosterone levels start to drop. After the age of 30, testosterone levels decline approximately 1 percent per year, with a steep drop between the ages of 45 and 50. So if he takes longer or is less gung-ho, go easy on him…and yourself.

29. He doesn't care if you can't quite button your pants.

30. His nipples are as much fun as yours. Imagine if your partner never touched your nipples during foreplay or sex. Ignored them entirely. Well, why are you ignoring his? Men's nipples are as important to them as yours are to you. Slightly more than half of the men surveyed in a 2006 study by the University of Sheffield in England said nipple stimulation caused or enhanced their arousal. But only 17 percent ever asked for it.