Things You Should Know Cont.'

11. Honesty: Not always the best policy. So you've thought about cheating -- maybe even stolen a kiss or snuck out for coffee. Should you confess to make up for it? No way. Coming clean only inflicts pain on your partner and damages their sense of trust. If you want to protect him/her and keep your relationship going, swallow your guilt and keep your mouth shut. (I agree only to a point - secrets in a couple's relationship will put limits on the degree of intimacy they share. JC)

12. Love is in the air...as long as your man doesn't shower after his workout. The musky smell of male sweat can be a real turn-on for women. In a 2007 study from the University of California at Berkeley, the scent of a man boosted women's sexual arousal, mood, heart rate, blood pressure and breathing rate.

13. It's never too late Even if having sex is something you do only on birthdays and Bastille Day, you can always get back on the stick. All you have to do is…have sex. You may have to force yourself at first, but the more you do it, the more you want to do it. Start with once a month, then once a week, and who knows? Maybe you'll be a once-a-day person.

14. When it comes to how big, how often, how many times in one night, your friends are lying.

15. It's the next best thing to being there...but not that many forty-somethings know it. According to a 2004 survey by AARP, only 17% of men and 18% of women between the ages of 45 and 49 had phone sex.