16. Nobody does it better than you You can lie around waiting for your partner to bring you to orgasm, but you'll get there a lot faster if you take care of it yourself. When women masturbate, they typically climax in less than 4 minutes. When they're engaged in foreplay and intercourse, it can take 20 minutes. Your best bet for a speedy climax: using a vibrator.
17. Fantasy is fabulous. If your regular sex routine is a little stale, invite Johnny Depp and his pirate hat into bed with you. Losing yourself in a sex fantasy spices up the real thing, and boosts your overall sex drive. Sharing certain fantasies can add even more zip. In a 2004 ABC News poll, more than half of all men and women said they talk about their fantasies to boost their sex lives. The most common fantasies? Unexpected sex, threesomes, and sex at work.
18. If you're too tired, it's too bad for him. The best thing about getting older is that you can do -- or not do -- whatever you want. Say it nicely, and your partner should understand if you've got a headache or you want to watch the "Desperate Housewives" marathon instead of making love.
19. Size matters -- to him A survey of 50,000 heterosexual men and women showed that the vast majority of women (85 percent) felt satisfied by their man's size, while nearly half of all men (45 percent) were unhappy with their package. Let him know he's all you need.
20. He doesn't care if you wear flannel to bed.
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