Ever wonder why men frequent prostitutes? Many people assume that johns are losers who can't get sex any other way, but the vast majority of guys who visit prostitutes are ordinary men - most of whom are married or in committed relationships.
According to an article in Psychology Today, men who go to prostitutes often have more sexual partners than those who don't. So if desperation isn't the motive, then what is? It can be anything from a need for variety to the thrill of doing something secret and illicit. Men often use prostitutes to act out fantasies they couldn't with their wives or girlfriends. Men can also be totally selfish since they're paying for the sex to be all about them.
The downside? Men who come to view women as objects may have difficulty sustaining interest in normal relationships. The world's oldest profession might take a real hit if more men were whole sexual beings instead of sexual doings, and their wives/girlfriends were more open to sexual adventure.
Monday, October 26, 2009
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