I've written before about the need to pay attention to your bedroom - to make it a serene haven for you and your lover. I hear frequently from couples, however, who make a regular habit of watching TV in bed or who bring their laptops to bed with them. Talk about a turn-off!
Not that there's anything wrong with relaxing a bit with a movie you're both into or a mutual favorite TV show, but what I hear more often is one person is watching something the other couldn't care less about or one partner is catching up on emails while the other is rolled over in the bed feeling pretty insignificant.
The bedroom isn't the best place for multi-tasking. Even when sex isn't on the agenda, spending some time just cuddling with your partner and connecting before drifting off to sleep is a lot better for your sex life than allowing technology to come between you.
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